Many people want to find their perfect partner but for most people, this is a daunting search.
The reason why this is happening is that we forget that in order to fall in love with the partner of our dreams, we first need to fall in love with ourselves.
If the goal is to have a stable partner, you must first try to make the person who falls in love with them do not want to lose them. To achieve this, you must first love yourself. Being and believing that you are a person that would be difficult not to be madly in love, is the recommended way to achieve a lasting, healthy and exciting relationship.
To fall in love with oneself begins by knowing oneself, as well as by the enjoyment of daily life, of enjoying with that in which time is concerned. On the other hand, falling in love with oneself implies clearing one’s own beliefs, feeling able to live and making oneself aware of one’s values and being aware of the importance of defending one’s integrity.
To fall in love with oneself also requires to be proud of what one is, to admit and respect one’s own defects and to be authentic.
If you are not attracted to yourself, why was your partner doing it?
Having clarified this, we will have to answer the question: how do I fall in love with myself?
How to fall in love with yourself
Before continuing, let us make a point: falling in love with yourself is a matter of self-esteem, and has nothing to do with narcissism. To fall in love with yourself and show the best thing to your partner, follow these steps:
1. Look at yourself from the outside.
Watch yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror. What you see, is what others see.
You like what you see? What could you do to regenerate your appearance? It is not about being more handsome / or having recommended figure or recommended skin. It is the appearance you give. It is necessary to take sides, to dress in a way that you feel comfortable, to comb, to give a touch of color or to shave properly. It is about giving an image according to your personality.
A person who does not take care of himself or herself will take care of others, nor will he value the efforts of the other to take care of himself (or, at least, that is what it seems).
Providing a positive aspect, in your line, will help you to maintain your self-esteem, to be authentic and to increase the respect that you feel towards yourself. And respecting yourself is the first step for others to respect you and to value that respect that others have towards you.
2. Take care of your manners
How you talk and how you behave with others says everything about you.
How you say hello, how you talk talking to people, how you approach them when you have to say or ask for something or how you react to different situations, even how you laugh, it’s all a cover letter.
Your manners also speak of the confidence you have in yourself, the respect you feel towards your person and towards others, the pleasantness or not that you are, even the fun.
Do not forget that the attractiveness and sensuality of many people is in their way of being, much more than in their physical. But not only in their way of being in privacy, but in daily life.
3. Surpass Appearances
The above is unlikely to succeed if what you show is not really part of you. You must be authentic, overcome the game of appearances and make your presence and your way of interacting are really part of you. What you are and what you show, must be in tune.
If you aspire to find a partner in an environment that is not yours, you will have to first absorb what you want to convert to tune into that person.
4. Do not forget your friends
Your friends are part of your life, and if you have to give them up for your life as a couple is that you do not respect enough. If you love yourself, you must know that life does not begin and end in your partner. In addition, your friendships will allow you to get other types of complementary experiences, which you can share with your partner. In addition, a person with friends is a trustworthy person.
5. Develop your own projects
A person who develops and fights for their own projects is a very valued person, who has ideas, interests, strives, engages. It is a person with whom you can make plans, with which you can aspire to regenerate, grow and be recommendable, a person that adds value to life and its environment. In addition, participating in group projects shows you as a social person, collaborator, wanting to live and want to have fun.
We advise that you always consult your doctor and that you perform medical checks if your health needs it. We only give you an informative point of reference.